So, you want to bed the hottest women in your strip clubs, yes?
I'm writing this article for those who wish to know what it takes to pick up hot strippers and without paying more than a few dollars.
Let's face the facts. Most guys who go into a strip club generally go on a "guy's night out" or just to relax and escape from reality for a while. But regardless the reason, we go because these clubs have the hottest women around town. And what they do is spend alot of money and secretly in hopes to take these girls back home. But that fails 99.99% of the time, and I'm going to explain how to overcome this obstacle.
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#1 First and foremost, you need to dress to impress. This doesn't at all mean you need to buy the most expensive and nicest clothes. Just dress nice. I tend to wear collared shirts, jeans, and dress shoes when going out to any club, even bars at times, although I don't frequent these establishments as often anymore. Most guys who go into these clubs dress like they have no value. I'm talking tennis shoes, t-shirts, hoodies, and stuff like that. Well, if you want the hotties with the bodies, you have to dress nice.
#2 Great grooming and hygiene. This should be a given. Look your best at all times. This includes your haircut, applying lotion to your face if you have dry skin, brushing your teeth, etc. Trim your nose/ear hairs if necessary, too. You want to do your damn best at dressing and looking good before you take off to your local strip club/s.
#3 You'll need to bring at least enough money for a couple of drinks and for a lapdance. Don't worry, you won't be spending a whole lot of money, but it is important you bring around at least $75.00 in cash.
So you approach the front door, the music is playing really loud and you can see a bunch of people inside flirting, getting lapdances and ordering drinks. Everything seems to be great. Whoa! Hold on a minute there, partner! What the hell are you doing going into a strip club while it's busy? Get out and come back next weekend. But this time when you go, come at least a couple of hours early before anybody usually shows up. You want to be one of the only customers in that club. And there's a very important reason for this.
Getting there early allows for opportunity to get to know the strippers (they prefer to be called "dancers", just so you know) better. When it's loud and noisy and there's high potential for these girls to make money, you stand no chance at getting her back home and into bed. I'm not saying you can't, it's just reducing your chances dramatically.
Most guys when they go into a strip club either alone or with their friends tend to sit right in front of the dance stage while drinking their beers. Or they'll just sit and watch the women dance. Don't be that guy. And I know I sound like an oxy-moron for writing that. "What does he mean don't watch the women dance? It's a strip club." There's a very good reason I'm saying this. The best place you can approach is the bar. Go there right after getting in. Go to the bar, sit down, order a drink and just relax. Occassionally glance over to the dance floor/cage and if you see a girl you like, bring a couple of bucks and give it to her. Don't even wait for a reaction. Just put the money down next to her and walk away back to your bar chair and sit down. Don't look back. Pretend like you never tipped her for dancing. This does two things: 1) It shows her you're not cheap; 2) It shows her you respect her line of work. This will cause her to eventually come up to you so she can try to run her stripper game on you to begin the money milking process. And they're very good at it, believe me. It can be very easy to fall into the manipulation of a stripper. This is why you're not going to get drunk, only buzzed at most.
I promise you, she or another girl WILL sit down next to you to talk to you (it's their job). And when you're willing to give tips when almost nobody else is in the club, ALL of the women notice this and think of it highly. Believe me, not many customers do this. When she sits down beside you, don't act excited or anything. She'll ask, "Do you want a dance?" or some bullshit like that. Just calmly and confidently say, "Not right now. I'm just getting my drink on." Now what you're doing here is running your bullshit filter. If she thinks you're even remotely cute or charming, she'll be willing to stay and ask you another question, at which point you turn to her and say, "You know, I just noticed how stunning you look. What do you drink?" When she tells you what she drinks, call out to the bar tender, "Bar tender! I'll take a Heineken and a [whatever she's having]." Once you order the drink, completely ignore her. This will cause her to have to qualify herself to you. Remember, don't be the one giving all the attention to her. You're not playing hard to get but you're also not playing into her games. Don't ever play the "game" with strippers. They are experienced professionals, will always win, and you don't stand a chance, no matter how smart you think you may. Play that game and you'll be going home with an empty bank account, drunk off your ass and crying to your mom about how this woman broke your heart. Almost always, once you buy the drink and ignore her, she will ask your name, where you're from and questions of that nature.
If she asks your name, say, "You can call me [make up a nickname]". Then ask for her name. She will then give her fake stripper name 9 times out of 10. Ask, "What's your real name?" She will then usually tell her real name at this point. Once she does, say, "Thanks for being honest. My real name is [your real first name]." This will establish a rapport of trust and shows that you're reserved. Once all of this takes place, she will continue to try to get to buy lap dances out of you. Very calmly and confidently say with a smile, "No thank you, [her first name]. I'm enjoying my drink. I understand you have a job to do. If you need to work, I understand. But I'd like it if you came back to have some meaningful conversation. You seem like an interesting girl." 9 times out of 10, they will come back, and after mooching money off the masses of men in these clubs. I've seen it with my own eyes. The strippers I've sat down with all night, talked with and exchanged phone numbers with have brought men up to ATM machines in these clubs and took them for everything they had.
When they come back to talk during their breaks from servicing customers, be very curious about them and ask questions. Don't show too much excitement and turn on your charm. Be humorous/funny, tell stories, ask questions about her, and don't ever try to impress her. Keep things low key. Look at her in the eyes while she's talking. When she turns her head and moves her eyes, mirror her head and eye movement while slowly putting your face in toward hers. Smile, but not in an insecure way. The more you do this and the more you show curiosity about her, she will also become curious about you. This is where you turn up the sexual tone and lower your voice. You're entering the first phase of seduction. Say calmly and seductively in a deep voice, "You know, you have very soft cheeks. May I touch them?" Without waiting for a response, caress them quickly with your thumb and hand and let go. Smile. Put your hand around her neck while leaning into her and stroke her hair. Then release. Lean back and go back to drinking your beer. At that point, say nothing and just smile with that naughty boy look who just saw under a little girl's skirt back in kindergarten. Keep this up and she will either ask for your number or ask you to go back home with her.
